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What’s the Tone in Your Home These Days?

“A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” Proverbs 15:1

Words, and how they are said, set the tone in our homes. Have you stopped to

listen to the tone in your home lately? I did. I listened to those around me and I

paid close attention to what came out of my own mouth. I saw some patterns

that were good and others that I didn’t like.

Taking inventory of the words spoken in our homes is a good exercise especially

when we inventory ourselves along with it. Sometimes we don’t even realize what

has crept in or what is missing. Tones of disapproval, sarcasm, or annoyance can

wrap the words we say and impact the way they are received often creating an

edge of hostility. Or tones reflecting kindness, caring and gratitude can bring the

opposite attitude into our homes.

Words are very powerful. The tones they are spoken in imply so much. A soft

answer can turn away anger but harsh words can stir it up. Words and tones

create the atmosphere in your home. Start with yourself and watch the results.

You won’t be disappointed as you invest intentionally in your words and your


Father God, in these hurried and changing times we live in, I want our homes to

be an oasis where we can refuel to face the challenges of our days. Please help us

to be aware of our words. Help me to inventory the words and tones in our home

and to become the change agent to move the bar higher. I need your help, Lord.

Remind me to speak softly and kindly and to model the words and tones that can

change the atmosphere in our home. Thank you Lord. I ask this in the name of

Jesus, amen.

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